Some people are incompitent, incompitent to make themself happy. Can’t catch sarcasm of life and make others responsible for thers emotional state. You should let them be sad.
When you take decions that make other people happy, you are called kind. decions where, its not a prolong discomfort to you. its a common understanding of social manners, solely depends of your range of empathy and how much command your sympathy has over you. You have no control over how other person feel about it, you are giving them a change to handle it.
responsibility is the word, is second most hated word in english language for me, first is social responsiblity. the word just echo a sense of obligation, instard of willing favor.
Personaly, I never take responsibility of someone else hapiness. weather its parents, superiors, comrades and admirers. when people who are incompitent to make themself happy, can’t catch sarcasm of life and make others responsible for there emotions. people with untamed fear. You should let them be sad. You should take decions that you are intend too, after that you should let be on there course to handle it.
This entire argument is only valid, in presence of emotions and sentiments, where you only exchange sentiments and concerened about there emotions. coz in business and politics its fairly simple. you can handle consequences you act, else you do not.
Moreover with the idea of holding other responible for your fears, sorrow and hapiness. what kind of enviorment are we creating, unpleasent wind of complaining… whining bitches.